Introduction
In a world where wellness advice is everywhere, from social media influencers to self-help books, it’s easy to feel like you’re never doing enough. Drink more water, exercise daily, meditate, avoid sugar, eat clean. What even is eating clean? Because one day I can have porridge in the morning, and the next, oats are suddenly the villain of my breakfast, especially if you're a woman, case in point. The list goes on.
While the intention behind wellness culture is positive, it often leaves us feeling guilty for not meeting impossible standards. At Blōma, we believe that true wellness isn’t about ticking off a checklist or living up to someone else’s idea of health. It’s about finding joy, balance, and a routine that works for you. In this blog, we’ll explore why guilt often creeps into our wellness journeys and how to reclaim a more balanced, compassionate approach to self-care.
Why Wellness Culture Can Make Us Feel Guilty
Wellness culture started with the best of intentions: to promote healthier lifestyles, self-awareness, and mental well-being. However, it has evolved into a $4.4 trillion industry that sometimes prioritizes perfection over progress. It's not only about perfection, it's also about overconsumption and competition to be the healthiest, the most disciplined, and, let's face it, the most "well."
The "Should" Mentality
We live in a world filled with "shoulds."
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You should wake up at 5 a.m. to be successful.
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You should avoid carbs if you want to be healthy.
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You should track everything. But seriously, when do I have time to log every meal into an app, decode macros and micros, and analyze sleep cycles and glucose spikes? It’s fascinating, but let's be real, who has the time for all of this?
When we don't meet these expectations, guilt quickly follows. This guilt can lead to a cycle of self-criticism, where every missed workout or indulgence feels like a failure.
How Guilt Impacts Your Mental and Physical Health
Guilt isn't just an annoying feeling, it can seriously mess with your mind and body.
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Mental Health: Guilt isn't just an annoying feeling, it can seriously mess with your mind. Research from Psychology Today shows that chronic guilt can trigger anxiety disorders, making you feel on edge all the time. Studies also show that when guilt becomes a regular part of your life, it can impact the brain's anterior cingulate cortex (the part responsible for emotions) leading to more stress and even depression. It's like wearing a too-tight bra all day: uncomfortable, constricting, and constantly reminding you it's there. And honestly, who needs that?
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Physical Health: Guilt can also take a toll on your body. When you're constantly feeling bad about not doing enough, your body releases cortisol—the stress hormone. According to Healthline, too much cortisol over time can throw off your sleep, mess with your digestion, and even show up on your skin (hello, stress breakouts!). Plus, the exhaustion from trying to be "perfectly well" can lead to burnout, making it harder to find the energy for real self-care.
Steps to Find Balance Without Guilt
Redefine What Wellness Means to You
True wellness is personal. It doesn't look the same for everyone, and it shouldn’t. For some, it might mean going for a run; for others, it might mean taking a nap every day after lunch. At Blōma, we believe in celebrating all forms of self-care, whether it’s a green juice or a glass of wine with friends.
My ultimate self-care routine? It’s watching TV before bed. Yes, I know I’m supposed to cut off screens two hours before sleeping. But my days start at 6:30 a.m. (thanks to Flaubert, my puppy!), and they don’t stop until I hit the pillow. That quiet time with a silly show is my bubble, my recharge.
Embrace the "Good Enough" Mindset
Wellness isn’t about perfection, it’s about progress. Skipped leg day? No worries. Ate ice cream straight from the tub after a tough day? You do you. Whether you’re a new mom squeezing in a five-minute shower or a hustler juggling meetings and meal prep, give yourself permission to just be. Sometimes the best self-care is simply saying, "I’m doing enough, and that’s okay
Set Goals That Feel Good, Not Just Look Good
Instead of setting rigid goals like “always get 8 hours of sleep” and “cut out all sugar,” aim for ones that feel sustainable. How about “try going to bed 20 minutes earlier each night for a week” or “make small changes to reduce sugar, like swapping one sugary drink a day with water or gradually cutting back from two sodas to one, and then to one every other day”? This mindset shift can reduce guilt and make your wellness routine genuinely enjoyable.
Be as Kind to Yourself as You Are to Your Friends
Imagine your best friend telling you she skipped the gym because she was tired. Would you judge her? Of course not. You’d tell her to rest, to take it easy. Now, give yourself that same grace. Self-compassion isn’t just nice to have, it’s essential.
Blōma’s Approach: Wellness Without Compromise
At Blōma, we’re all about making wellness simple, effective, and joyful. Our products are designed to fit into your life, not take over it. Whether it’s our Recovery Packs to help you feel your best after a fun night out or our upcoming wellness solutions, we’re here to support you without the guilt.
We believe in a balanced approach where you can enjoy life’s pleasures while taking care of your body and mind. It’s not about perfection, it’s about progress and enjoying the journey along the way.
Conclusion: Choose Balance, Not Guilt
Wellness shouldn’t feel like a chore or a list of restrictions. It should enhance your life, not add stress to it. By embracing a balanced approach to self-care, you can let go of guilt and start truly enjoying the benefits of a healthier lifestyle.
So, let’s flip the script on wellness culture. Celebrate small wins, indulge without guilt, and prioritize what makes you feel good, whatever that looks like for you.
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