Let’s be honest, bachelorette weekends can either be iconic or chaotic. After organising five of them (yes, five), I’ve picked up more than a few survival skills. The truth? It’s not just about booking a pretty Airbnb and printing matching T-shirts. A great hen do is about balance: energy, budget, people, vibes and yes, recovery.
Whether you’re the maid of honour, the spreadsheet queen, or just the brave soul who said “I’ll plan it,” this is your ultimate bachelorette party planning guide.
Start With the Budget (Yes, Even If It’s Awkward)
The biggest mistake you can make? Skipping the money talk. I used to avoid it too, it can feel a bit ick asking people to commit to a number. But setting the budget early is the only way to make the rest of the weekend flow smoothly.
Here’s what works: suggest a rough range, offer two different vibes (like "chill Airbnb + dinners" vs "destination party weekend"), and give people space to be honest. You’ll avoid passive-aggressive texts and last-minute dropouts later.
If the idea of managing different price points, group sizes, and bookings stresses you out, I highly recommend working with Eternity. They help create beautiful, seamless hen do experiences and take a huge weight off your shoulders so you can actually enjoy the party.
Logistics: AKA My Personal Hen Do Nemesis
This is where it gets real. Destination wedding? Half the group flying from one country, the other half from another. Someone books a different place. One girl lands at midnight, another at 6AM. Cue: chaos and panic attacks.
If you can, appoint a “logistics buddy” to help coordinate. Create a shared Google Doc with everyone’s travel info. Build in buffer time between activities. Book a group taxi or transfer where possible. You want your bride to feel relaxed, not like she’s managing an event.
And again: Eternity. Seriously. They’ll save you more than once.
Group Dynamics: Making It Feel Natural (Not Forced)
One of the trickiest parts of any hen do is the group dynamic. You’ve got childhood friends, work colleagues, the cool sister-in-law... and they all bring different energies.
What works? Giving it time and letting go of the idea that you can control every dynamic. Group chemistry takes a minute to click, especially when not everyone knows each other.
A chill welcome dinner, a shared playlist, and a few pre-party spritzes can go a long way in breaking the ice. Don’t be afraid to ask the bride for a bit of background on everyone ahead of time. It’ll help you plan light games or intro moments that feel fun, not forced.
By day two, the tension usually melts. And the best part? Watching girls who just met laugh like old friends. That’s the magic.
Don’t Overplan: Leave Room for Spontaneity (and Naps)
It’s tempting to fill every hour with brunches, beach clubs, boat rides, and bar crawls. But trust me, people need downtime. I aim for one main activity per half day and always leave space to chill, recover, and just exist. Some of the best memories come from the in-between moments.
What to Pack for a Hen Do: The Essentials
You already know what I’m going to say: Blōma Recovery Packs are non-negotiable. After a late night (or three), these little beauties help with hydration, energy, digestion, bloating, stress, and the general post-party fog. They’ve turned me from zombie to semi-human more than once.
I usually pack extras for the group and hand them out on the last night like gold. Instant MVP.
Other must-haves:
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SPF (always)
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Sheet masks
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Flats (someone will be thankful)
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Snacks
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Hydration sprays
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Something cozy for hangover mornings
Capture the Vibe (Without Making It a Photoshoot)
Set up a shared album so everyone can add their snaps. Appoint a content queen if you have one. And don’t forget to actually be in some of the photos you’ll want to remember you were there too!
If you’re working with Eternity, check if they can include a photographer or content package. Totally worth it for the memories (and the ‘gram).
Your Bride, Your Rules
At the heart of it all, remember: this is about celebrating someone you love. You don’t need to copy that reel you saw on TikTok or book the “perfect” villa on Instagram.
Plan the champagne toast. Surprise her with something personal. And don’t forget to pack Blōma because nothing ruins the moment like a hangover.
FAQs
How much should you spend on a bachelorette party?
It depends on the destination and activities, but being upfront about expectations early on helps avoid stress. Aim for a budget that feels comfortable for most of the group.
What are fun activities for mixed hen do groups?
Cooking classes, spa days, games night, karaoke, or a low-key boat ride activities where everyone can get involved at their own pace.
Can you stay healthy on a hen weekend?
Absolutely. Bring Blōma Recovery Packs, stay hydrated, get some sleep and most importantly, let yourself enjoy it without guilt.
Planning a hen do soon?
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Browse our Pinterest board for destination inspo and packing lists.
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Let Eternity take care of the logistics so you can focus on the fun.
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And don’t forget to pack Blōma Recovery Packs, because wellness and wild nights can coexist.
You’ve got this. And she’ll never forget it.
